Having a cell phone and knowing how to “use” it to his advantage allows a motivated narcissist to move seamlessly through life without the stress of multiple worlds colliding. A clever narcissist learns that he can use his cell phone as a tool for juggling multiple relationships and for keeping one relationship from ever really finding out about the other. Get When Love Is a Lie – $5.99 Click Image to Order via Amazonĭo not ever be fooled….The Cell Phone Game is always a key component in a narcissist’s pathological relationship agenda. I assume this twisted pathological strategy was to ensure a vaguely recognizable number when he hoovered but all I could envision was a big bag of disposable bat-phones that he simply reached into whenever he needed to cut me off or come back, depending on which bed he was headed to! Change Your Life Today! Sometimes he’d resurface with a newly reactivated old number (from years before) and sometimes even the old phone to go with it. In a weird sort of way, it was triangulation by cell phone. And although I never could prove this theory, I’m still convinced of it.
Later, although he vehemently denied the connection, I became convinced that the number of times he cheated was directly related to the number of times he changed cell numbers.
The fact that suddenly (and for no apparent reason) I was simply cut off from all contact – sometimes for months – literally crushed my soul to the very core. His MO was to simply vanish while simultaneously letting his cell run out of minutes. During one three year stretch, my ex changed his cell numberno less than fifteen times.